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Benevolent Delusions Overheard in a casual conversation: someone I know, intelligent, well-meaning, and generally delightful, wistfully said they were born in the wrong era. I’ve heard this sentiment before. Quite a few times, actually. Almost always from good eggs. Thoughtful people. Sensitive souls. I’ll admit, even I’ve entertained the fantasy. That a hundred-odd years ago, life was somehow slower, kinder, more civilised. That had I been born in, say, the late 19th century, I’d be reclining in some leafy estate, living the gentle life of a pipe-smoking gentleman of letters, writing longhand notes to lovers and editors, riding horses without a helmet, retiring at dusk to a private library, and attending ballroom affairs where men bowed and women curtsied with grace. It’s a lovely image, isn’t it? But peel back the sepia, and it begins to smell a little off. Because that version of history, the one with silk gloves and handwritten invitations, only exists for a tiny slice of people. And those of us who feel this sort of nostalgia often make one convenient, unspoken assumption: that we’d be part of that elite. That we’d be the ones drinking sherry and debating politics in drawing rooms, not emptying chamber pots or dying of syphilis in alleyways. Given my caste and gender, that assumption isn’t entirely implausible. But it is unexamined, and frankly, rather arrogant. The vast majority of people back then, and by ‘people’ I mean women, lower castes, the colonised, the poor, lived lives that were, in Hobbesian fashion, nasty, brutish, and short. For most humans in most of human history, the past wasn’t a picnic. It was a battlefield. One you were usually losing. And yet, the fantasy persists. I see the same delusion in those who yearn for a “benevolent dictator” to set things right. Ah yes, the noble strongman. The just tyrant. The great fixer. Of course, this magical despot is always presumed to be someone who shares their values, their tastes, their sense of right and wrong. Someone they’d have a drink with, perhaps. It never occurs to them that the baton might land in the hands of their ideological nemesis. Which is why I like to ask them a simple question: “Would you still want a dictator if that person,” and here, I gesture casually to someone they utterly detest, “were the one in charge?” The silence that follows is often the most honest thing they’ve said all day.
Benevolent Dictator is an oxymoron. The erstwhile kings like Ashok or Rajarajan were benevolent dictators only. I don’t think any king can be benevolent.
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Ravi Kumar MurugesanBenevolent dictators or kings never really existed in history. You’ll find that so-called benevolent rulers were often corrupt, allowing others to loot their own resources just to protect themselves from their own families. They were extremely cunning, cowardly, and opportunistic. That’s why they needed so much marketing about their “hypothetical greatness,” like “I can fight a crocodile with my bare hands.” 🤣
A benevolent dictator is a rare exception. Maybe happens within a culture like Asia to the east of us which is very practical and pragmatic not ideological or religious - Singapore, S. Korea, Taiwan. While you were being very generous and charitable with those at home thinking "benevolent dictator"... I look at them as Stupid as defined in "The Theory of Stupidity by Dietrich Bonhoeffer".
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Arun Kumar MaheshwariBenevolent dictators or kings never really existed in history. You’ll find that so-called benevolent rulers were often corrupt, allowing others to loot their own resources just to protect themselves from their own families. They were extremely cunning, cowardly, and opportunistic. That’s why they needed so much marketing about their “hypothetical greatness,” like “I can fight a crocodile with my bare hands.” 🤣
Yash PratapYep! I agree there is nothing to remember, learn from or redeeming from the "age of royalty" - a very long one unfortunately. Our focus of history should start from the era of the start of the Freedom Struggle - early 1900s. From before that we should take a simple view of - never again is the only thing to learn from it and not remembering anyone from it is just fine. If someone puts a gun to my head and asks - no you have to remember 2-3 from that long period - I will only remember Buddha, Ashok and Akbar.
Yash PratapIt's been 75+ years, so I am prone to focus on our problems as ours and not lay it all on colonial times. BTW, the colonialists have all moved on to a much better place for themselves. If we aren't, we need to focus on that part.
Arun Kumar MaheshwariDefinitely, I proposed the solution for the same because it's the same problem in abstract, the problem of rupees, solved by Dr Ambedkar in 1923. In Corporate India, services are provided to US-based clients under terms largely set abroad. Big companies profit, but smaller firms and workers gain little. Wealth and opportunities remain concentrated among the upper-middle class of urban India, who have access to education in English-medium convent schools and coaching. Many of these individuals later become a significant portion of educated migrants living in Western countries. It means that the money earned from the hard work of the average Indian IT employee, which should have come to India, remains in the U.S. and other Western countries in the form of taxes and assets held by Indian elites living there. This makes Indian community in US as one of the wealthiest relative to its population (50 Lakh Indians owning approx $ 0.8 - 1 Trillion). We haven't created RBI equivalent solution for corporate India IT where different companies can compete with each other for projects and where Government can give protection to US client regarding money and quality of work. https://lnkd.in/gVv_Pyg7
Arun Kumar MaheshwariThis country is paying a heavy price for not reading the colonial history and contributions of Dr Ambedkar. Sometimes I felt that casteism is so deep in this society that people consider "Constitution of India" as untouchable that's why people never bother to even read about their own rights out of hatred. What a self harm ..
We often forget that past, present and our wishful thinking about the future is always a package deal. We never get to opt in or opt out of its parts. I confess to a similar fantasy about the way science was practiced in the past. Come to think of it, Galileo was imprisoned for life for suggesting that earth revolves around the Sun. The worst which can happen today is that they will reject your paper!
This made for an interesting and entertaining read. I have often heard the same nostalgic comments from all.quarters. But found it rather pointless to argue or point at some ideas mentioned in the post to.them. Assumptions galore. But as rightly pointed out, the chances that we might be just about scraping through life trying to not die are much higher than imagined. And the concept of rhe benevolent dictator. The ending about the silence... That is hilarious.
Very elegantly written! I also have this dream sometimes of going back into history (especially while reading some novels or historic articles) and often have to wake myself up by thinking about the reality of how a HUGE section of the world’s population were living a horrible life. This world is a far better place today for the largest section of the population ever in the history of humanity. Yes, still there is a big chunk that is experiencing a wretched life, but that % is at its lowest since humanity started.
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While you were being very generous and charitable with those at home thinking "benevolent dictator"... I look at them as Stupid as defined in "The Theory of Stupidity by Dietrich Bonhoeffer".
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hashtag#ola employee hashtag#suicide is also happened due to Work culture and Labour Laws tilted towards IT industry with colonial structure.
https://www.linkedin.com/posts/yashp2411_ola-activity-7387597243928920064-EoPv
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In Corporate India, services are provided to US-based clients under terms largely set abroad. Big companies profit, but smaller firms and workers gain little.
Wealth and opportunities remain concentrated among the upper-middle class of urban India, who have access to education in English-medium convent schools and coaching.
Many of these individuals later become a significant portion of educated migrants living in Western countries.
It means that the money earned from the hard work of the average Indian IT employee, which should have come to India, remains in the U.S. and other Western countries in the form of taxes and assets held by Indian elites living there. This makes Indian community in US as one of the wealthiest relative to its population (50 Lakh Indians owning approx $ 0.8 - 1 Trillion).
We haven't created RBI equivalent solution for corporate India IT where different companies can compete with each other for projects and where Government can give protection to US client regarding money and quality of work.
https://lnkd.in/gVv_Pyg7
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Yep! I can 100% agree to.
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Assumptions galore.
But as rightly pointed out, the chances that we might be just about scraping through life trying to not die are much higher than imagined.
And the concept of rhe benevolent dictator. The ending about the silence... That is hilarious.
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I also have this dream sometimes of going back into history (especially while reading some novels or historic articles) and often have to wake myself up by thinking about the reality of how a HUGE section of the world’s population were living a horrible life.
This world is a far better place today for the largest section of the population ever in the history of humanity. Yes, still there is a big chunk that is experiencing a wretched life, but that % is at its lowest since humanity started.
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(I don't mean to patronise.... but this is a ponint rarely made, and here it is put just so)